The dreaded internet stalker

Phoebe – 9th march 2020

One thing that Leo (and therefore, I) have had to deal with recently is the scary world of the internet stalker.

Leo posted about this on his blog recently here, especially about his right to privacy and how one would feel if it was yourself who was on the receiving end. Unfortunately, the stalker in question has also found me and by proxy, I am now too the target of internet stalking. 

At that time, we were deep in planning our work together and how we would introduce ourselves to the world. Some might say that Leo was being hypocritical in that post, as he did not refer to me (and stated that he doesn’t have a girlfriend – which may lose him some clientele!) and b) what was happening ‘behind the scenes’ with the planning of Melbourne Couples Escorts -but please, try to look at this from our perspective. If you read my previous blog post, I hope you’ll see that this has not been an easy path for Leo because he’s had to navigate his work with a relationship, which may be upsetting to some of his clients – a relationship was NOT on his radar (or mine!) but it is wonderful just the same – and we wouldn’t change it for the world! And working together? I said a lot about that in my previous blog post, so please, go read it 🙂

I’d like to reinforce this with a quote directly from Leo’s blog about this subject:

“I don’t deserve this stalking, and I deserve to be able to have a private life, don’t you think?”

And yes, Leo and I do deserve to have a private life. it’s really unnerving to have to deal with a stalker, but it really is as simple as blocking the person in question and ensuring the safety of those that you care about, by locking down your social media profiles to the highest possible security settings – in any cyberstalking situation.

Regarding the law in Victoria, the following quote is from https://www.findlaw.com.au/articles/4793/cyberstalking-and-the-law-.aspx

“[T]he actus reus of stalking is engaging in a course of conduct that includes acting in a way that could reasonably be expected to arouse apprehension or fear in the victim for his safety or that of any other person, where the course of conduct engaged in actually has that effect… The mens rea for stalking is an intention to cause physical or mental harm or of arousing apprehension or fear in the victim for the victim’s own safety or that of any other person.”

His Honour went on to outline the four elements that the offence consists of which are:

  • there must be a course of conduct;
  • the course of conduct must involve a protracted act or several acts;
  • the accused must perform the act or acts with the intention of causing physical or mental harm to the victim or of arousing apprehension or fear in the victim for his or her own safety or that of another person; and
  • the course of conduct must have aroused apprehension or fear in the victim for his or her own safety or that of another person, and the course of conduct requires a continuity of purpose.

This person is also breaking Australian Federal Law – and if need be, we can have someone track ISP’s to present this information to the police, both at a State and Federal level. If we have to we will take appropriate steps to protect ourselves – but in all honesty, we feel really sorry for the person in question as they are delusional and we hope that they can find the strength to seek assistance regarding caring for their mental health.

Neither of us wish ill on anyone, we just don’t think that way – and this person needs to know that we just feel sad for them.

“Smooth seas do not make skilful sailors.” African Proverb

Sorry for the heavy blog post, we’d prefer to keep these fun and informative – but please know that we take your safety as seriously as we do ours and us sharing this with you is in part to demonstrate this to you but to also ensure that the person in question sees that we are not afraid and that we will stand up to them!

Kisses,

Phoebe xoxo

Phoebe answers THOSE questions that you’re dying to know the answers to! ;)

PHOEBE – 7TH MARCH 2020

Okay – I can literally hear you screaming these questions – so I’ll do my best to answer them! I know as a straight/bi curious female, with a full time escort as a partner, that I’ll get even MORE questions than Leo (ladies, I can literally HEAR YOU LOL!), so – here we go!

ARE YOU REALLY A COUPLE? 

I can assure you we are VERY much a couple. J’adore. A deep, soul to soul connection. We weren’t, and aren’t, supposed to feel like this – but we do. And we love it! We actually have a lot in common, apart from the blatantly obvious 😉

HOW DO YOU BALANCE ESCORTING AS A COUPLE? HOW ON EARTH DO YOU MAKE IT WORK?

Please let me assure you, that just like any relationship (especially if you’re reading this as a couple) – it takes hard work, honesty, commitment and love. Honesty is KEY.

Slightly off topic – if you are here because you are intrigued and want to experiment with us with your partner, but you’re concerned about their reaction – BE HONEST. You may be very pleased, because you KNOW deep down what the reaction will be…

That being said – we can see if one member of a couple is just as excited to work with us as we are with you and one isn’t – and is there to please you. It’s really uncomfortable for everyone concerned, especially your partner – so again, be honest!

We know that working together (as working together in ANY business relationship as a couple) adds an extra layer of complexity to the affinity we share – but just as we make things work together as a couple, we make it work as an escorting couple. We also LOVE what we do! We gain a HUGE amount of happiness and gratification from bringing pleasure to others. We love working with couples and threesomes – it turns us on as much as it turns you on. And – we enjoy ourselves as much as you do!

Phoebe – don’t you get jealous?

Short answer – no. I actually find it a HUGE turn on that Leo brings as much joy and exhilaration to my sisters from other misters. I see you, girl! Enjoy him as much as I do 🙂

I’ve been told by my very close friends that it takes a strong woman to be in a relationship with an escort – but I’ve lived life and I have been hurt before – and anyone that knows Leo knows that he would never, EVER set out to hurt anyone and is one of the kindest, most caring people you could ever meet. He is also incredibly professional. How could I be jealous? 

Leo makes me proud every time he’s with clients, with or without me… and jealousy? That’s an emotion that is felt when one is seeking approval. I have Leo’s full approval! I don’t feel jealousy. I feel pride. I’m so proud of Leo.

Does Leo get jealous?

I don’t offer my services outside Melbourne Couples Escorts and Leo LOVES that I’m now working alongside him!

So – no!

(Ladies – I can hear you! Double standards! Let me assure you this is NOT the case – and with “civilian’ employment – quite simply, I don’t have the time, even if I wanted to!)

How is it to my/our advantage to engage an escorting couple, as opposed to a male and female escort?

That’s very easy to answer. We KNOW each other so very, very well – we can read each other’s actions (and often thoughts) intuitively. For experienced couples who have worked with escorts who are not couples – your mind will be blown by how instinctual and natural our ability to focus on your needs is. This enables us to be spontaneous and to often subconsciously know what the other is planning to do!

It’s also much, MUCH easier to communicate your needs to us both because we do what every couple that works together does – we set aside time for work and for play and we work TOGETHER, in this instance, to ensure that your experiences with us are the best they possibly can be. If I reply to enquiries myself, it will be because Leo is otherwise engaged and we know that your time is important – but we endeavour to reply to inquiries together as much as possible.

how safe are we/am I with you both?

Two words – extremely safe. Leo has over a decade’s experience in the industry and prides himself on ensuring that his female clients are safe in his company – and in his experiences with couples, he is always respectful and caring, ensuring that the comfort of his clients is paramount – which is also my commitment!

We both undertake sexual health screenings every three months. We also insist on safe sex practices.

We are both registered sex workers (see “Our Services” for this information), which means that neither of us has a) a criminal record and b) must be of good character. To ensure that our reputations within the industry are exceptional is paramount, so we strive to thoroughly exceed these expectations. Our discretion is an essential part of our reputation, and you can rest assured that we are ALWAYS discreet.

I’m sure that we’ll get a lot more questions on this topic – if it’s not personal, I will do my best to answer, as will Leo.

Kisses,

Phoebe xoxo