One, two, three
Not only you and me
Got one eighty degrees
And I’m caught in between
One, two, three
Peter, Paul and Mary
Gettin’ down with 3P
Everybody loves me
What we do is innocent
Just for fun and nothin’ meant
If you don’t like the company
Let’s just do it you and me
You and me
On the floor…
3 – Britney Spears
Group sex has taken place for eons, with evidence of organised orgies and group sex being found through analysis of ancient artifacts from as far back as ancient Mesopotamia (see https://medium.com/unusual-universe/the-complete-history-of-the-sex-orgy-7fb0a38bab7d).
The concept of swinging was brought to the modern consciousness in the 1970’s, evoking visions of flares, platform shoes, velour, shag pile carpets (ugh) and classic porn… thankyou, John Holmes! (Although I prefer to think of Mark Whalberg in Boogie Nights… oh yeah…YES PLEASE! ) – and along with these visions comes an almost sleazy vision of sex beyond a couple.
If you would like a good belly laugh about swinging in the 1970’s, I recommend grabbing yourself a bowl of popcorn and watching the Australian movie Swinging Safari – you can watch a preview at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZB95v_pyQq8 – it’s hilarious! And shout out to Queen Kylie for her surprising (and thought-provoking) turn as Kaye Hall.
But – what does swinging look like in the 2020’s? Does the sleazy stereotype still prevail? Can it be sexy and fun, yet classy and evocative?
Of course, swinger’s/sex parties still exist and can range from highly exclusive, elaborately planned, perfectly executed (and very expensive) sex parties to a few friends having a few too many drinks and winding up with each other’s partners (come on, I see you!), along with everything in between that you can imagine – and yes, some horrendous, sleazy ‘adventures’ do still occur. You only need to search Pornhub to find the evidence!
But… what if you’ve fantasised about having a threesome (or more!) and you really, REALLY don’t want the unknown of attending a swinger’s party as advertised online or try your luck at the bar or club – along with the inherent risk these both involve? How can you make your fantasies a reality without undertaking months of planning and preparation? If you’re single – how can you find two (or more) people who may be interested in experiencing the freedom of group sex with you, without putting yourself in what could be a highly embarrassing situation? If you’re with a partner but you want to include another (or more than one other) in some sexy fun and explore, with your partner (which can really strengthen and enhance your own sexual pleasure, together) – how can you do that without encountering that same embarrassment?
How can you overcome the taboo of what can be considered to be risque within a society centered on monogamy, could possibly be dangerous (particularly attending a swinger’s party with people who are strangers to you or by hooking up with two or more unknown people on a night out) – yet explore and satisfy your sexual fantasies?
If you’ve considered engaging an escort (or two) to enhance your fun, it can be GREAT – but if those escorts don’t know how the other works and very possibly have only met for the first time just before meeting you… the experience, while sexy, may not be everything you hoped. Why?
Because while sex in a group is fun… it’s even better with a COUPLE that works together, knows each other intimately – and are a committed couple, who are in love.
My name is Phoebe and together with my partner Leo, we operate as Melbourne Couples Escorts. We REALLY ARE a committed couple who are very much in love – and we LOVE to please, are highly professional and have a great passion not only for each other but to bring happiness to others during our time together.
In the “CATEGORIES” section of Scarlet Blue (see the menu at the top of the page), you can scroll down to “Browse by gender/sexuality” – and you will find a link to Scarlet Blue’s heterosexual couples, titled “Our Couples Escorts”. We are one of only three male/female escort couples listed on Scarlet Blue across Australia, so we are amongst a very exclusive group – and we are proud of what we can offer to you either as a single, couple… or more. You can read more about what we can offer you, along with links to our web presence and social media, where you can learn even more about us… and make contact us to make plans for experiences beyond what you imagined to be possible.
You can visit our profile on Scarlet Blue at https://scarletblue.com.au/escort/melbourne-couples-escorts – we look forward to the opportunity to show you that swinging is far from what you may preconceive and can be classy, unique, safe and satisfying – your fantasies really can be as you imagine them to be.
Phoebe and Leo xoxo