Safe sex at its best – making safe sex fun!

Leo –

Safer sex is important, and it’s important for you to know that you are in safe hands.

In more than eleven years of being your male escort, I’ve used many condoms, and I’ve found the ‘female condom’ as it’s called, to be the best! And not just because I can’t fit my penis inside most of the other ones 😉

Phoebe also prefers to use the female condom. 🙂 (We do use regular condoms on our sex toys).

It’s the most comfortable. It is the safest. It is non-allergenic, often made of polyurethane or nitrile rather than latex. It has the outer ring, so the entire condom can’t slide into the vagina. And it feels more natural. Helping make safer sex a much more enjoyable experience.  

Here is a blog that I wrote quite a few years ago, back in October 2014:

“Safe sex at it’s best – Making safe sex fun!

15 October 2014

Hands up who wants to see their male escort Leo and end up with an unplanned pregnancy, or an STD? Good, I’m not seeing any hands up!! 

When you see me, you get a quality experience, just what you are looking for, and you are in safe hands. I am as safe as I can be, and wearing condoms is a must.

I have no std’s, and don’t plan on ever getting any, and I would never want to catch anything and pass it on to anyone.. As my main aim with doing what I do is not to ‘make a lot of money and become rich’ – my main aim is to be a positive difference in the lives of everyone I see, whether it is as a companion, friend, or lover … Or for a massage, or unbelievable mind-blowing sex!

So now about the safe sex, I am introducing to you… The ‘FEMALE CONDOM.’

Created by a Danish physician in the 1980’s, the female condom should have revolutionised the way we practise safe sex, and it has a lot, and especially in developing countries, though it still needs much more promotion and public awareness, across the globe.
To see more information, just do a 
google search..

There are many videos about them, showing how they work,etc.

Being a professional at what I do, and having been in the industry for more than five years, I’ve used all types of condoms.. Big, small, latex, non-latex, all these fancy new-age kinds (ribbed, ‘naked’, thin, etc.) but in my opinion NOTHING compares to the ‘Female condom.’

Personally, I want to see these in the condom section of every supermarket, pharmacy, and chemist.

I want them to be available to everyone, and for adolescents experimenting with sex to have these widely known about as a choice they can use.

It would make safe sex so much more fun, and so much more commonly practised.
Unfortunately they can only be bought online in most places. To read more about why they are not yet mainstream, click the link below.

Article: Can the female condom go mainstream?

I have been using these condoms for months now, and they’ve been nothing but fantastic. They are much safer, and as you can see from the links above, SO MUCH more comfortable, and natural-feeling. Most people can’t even feel them, which really adds to the intimacy and enjoyment of sex.

In the months since I’ve switched to using these condoms, almost all of my clients have said they would never go back to using a ‘male condom’ or regular condom.

They are just that good!

I’ve had the female condom be called a ‘Miracle umbrella,’ with their amazing feel, durability, comfort, and of course high level of safety.

Made from nitrile, they are safe and comfortable for everyone.

If you may be allergic or sensitive to latex or nitrile, feel free to bring your own condoms.

I do also carry with me a few types of ‘regular’ condoms, or ‘male condoms’ if that’s what you’d prefer! I love to appeal to all tastes!

It important to be safe, and I love to and live to be exactly what you are looking for! …”

Female ejaculation – fact or fiction?

Let me show you how your p*ssy works
Since you didn’t bring it to me first
I have lots of things to show you
If you’re ready to learn

Let me show you how your p*ssy works
Bet you didn’t know that it could squirt
I have lots of things to show you
If you’re ready to learn

Bryan McNight – Ready to Learn
(Timestamp for beginning of song: 1:18)

Ah. Female ejaculation. Yes, I was of the ‘no, it’s pee!’ brigade… once upon a time. But now… I know better 😉

Scholars from as far back to Hippocrates to the Kama Sutra have for centuries investigated the somewhat mythological squirt.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/544c5686-e3bc-4ac2-b4ca-f91eccefe441#:~:text=But%20it’s%20still%20unclear%20how,ml%20to%20more%20than%20150ml.

But why are we still debating this in 2020? Why are some able to squirt freely and fully embrace the experience, yet others believe that female ejaculation doesn’t exist – or IF it’s accepted as existing – is it ‘normal’? If there is one thing that I hope this decade brings, I sincerely hope that self-love and acceptance are it – accepting ourselves, despite what others think of us is a mantra that could help us to overcome hate – because if no-one gives a sh*t about what others think, then what’s the point in hate?

I can only speak from my personal experiences here, but I am aware of similar concerns amongst my female friends – for me, it was about the conditioning I received as a child. Don’t touch. Nice girls don’t do that. Nice girls have sex with their husbands.

But then my life was completely turned upside down and I fell in love with Leo, my partner in all things – including escorting. Let’s just say he showed me how my p*ssy works 😉 and I can now show you too! If you’re part of the significant proportion of women who are capable of squirting and never experienced it… you are missing OUT, ladies. And gentlemen – it is a HUGE turn on to learn the skills to be able to make your partner squirt!

If you want to find out how your or your partner’s p*ssy ‘works’ – we would love to show you how 🙂

Kisses,
Phoebe xoxo

Leo the Love Doctor’s Private Life – from melbournemaleescort.com.au blog

The Love Doctor’s private life

12 June 2020|Male Escort Melbourne

As a professional male escort and companion for women, I have over the years become very busy – and a lot of weeks it seems I work eight days per week! 

I am fully committed to making women feel great, and I love being able to make a positive difference to the world, one smile at a time.

One question I’ve occasionally been asked, is “Do you have a girlfriend?” and I wrote a blog about this early last year, and all I can say now is…

Well, how life can change. As yes, I now have a girlfriend. Yes, it is something I never thought would happen.

The Love Doctor is in love!

Oh, how our views on what is possible can change! I wrote a few things in that blog last year – mostly about how life might not be so happy for a female partner of a male escort – that I’ve now found are simply not true. My girlfriend is very, very happy, as am I. She is incredibly proud of me and my work, and loves that every time that I have a booking, I am making one of her sisters from another mister very happy! When we are together, life is wonderful for both of us. And even when I’m at work, life is wonderful for both of us too.

Some people may wonder how this could be and how she can be comfortable with me seeing female clients. All I can say is that everyone is unique, and everyone has their own views, beliefs, feelings, and ways of thinking. My girlfriend and I have evolved and experienced views that are reflected in the dynamics of our relationship – what is possible (and right) for us is unimaginable for some people.

It was a summer’s day, in January this year, when I happened to be checking out a market in St Kilda, and I had one of my pugs with me. I met Phoebe, who was also at the market, walking her pug as well. We got talking, and we just really clicked. We went to a nearby cafe and had coffee together, and tea, and talked for hours.

It was love at first sight.

I told her what I do as my profession and she was okay with it, and we just got talking about things, and well… the rest is history.

An important thing to note here is that I am still your male escort and companion. I love being here for women, this will never change, and my work will continue indefinitely. My girlfriend is totally, more than okay with what I do.

So what does this change for my former clients, my many regular clients, and my future clients? 

Nothing. It doesn’t change a thing.

I love providing the service that I do, and my girlfriend loves that I do as well. 

We both know that sex can also lead to feelings, particularly so with me being an escort and companion for females. My girlfriend and I are both okay with this and I make sure to provide you with an experience that is not just a physical experience. I want you to feel loved and like the only woman in the Universe when you are with me.

I have written before about Sex and feelings.

I am a very sensual, passionate, loving person, with so much love to give and I have a few clients who I have a special connection with.

It is possible to show love, and to love, without being in love.

If you develop some feelings for me, that’s okay, as long as they are beneficial for you, as long as you can keep things in perspective, and understand the boundaries of our escort/client relationship. For some clients, who may fantasise about marrying me and having my children – This can’t happen. I never lead clients to think there is something that there isn’t, and so we need to make sure you understand this.

There are quite a few escorts, male, female and non-gender-conforming, who also have a partner. This is okay! They may not talk about this openly, and it can be considered professional to not mention to their clients that they have a partner, so please respect each escort’s privacy, though it can also be considered professional to be open about this – and like I’ve said in my previous blog, I’m an open book, baby.

Honesty is a quality that I value immensely, and I’m always honest, so thought I’d share this. I’ve told a few of my clients already – even though as I’ve said, it doesn’t affect the relationship I have with any of my clients – and more than 95% of them have said they are so, so so happy for me, wish me all the best, and that they will continue to book me like they planned, and enjoy the wonderful times we have together. 

Fewer than 5% have said they don’t like the idea of seeing me while I’m in a relationship (which by the way is a forever relationship!) and said they may see me in the future, or they may not.

If you’ve seen the TV show Gigolos, (about real life male escorts) you’ve been introduced to quite a few male escorts who also have a girlfriend, in particular, Vin Armani. Some are even married, and have children. This is all okay too! Vin Armani, during the time of filming, was very busy as a male escort and in high demand, even though his clients knew he has a girlfriend. Like I said, I’ve told many of my clients already, and most of them are happy for me, and will continue to see me.

If you don’t like the sound of this blog, then you don’t have to read it. I am who I am, you are who you are, and you have the choice to meet with me, or not. I love my girlfriend, we are in love, and we have what is the most amazing relationship for both of us. A lot of people can’t imagine how we could commit to each other in our situation, but like I said, everyone is different, and this is what works for us.

In fact, Phoebe and I have also started working together, as Melbourne Couples Escorts, to join together in being able to offer an exclusive service to those who may be ready to expand the possibilities on what they thought possible, and reach an even higher lever of connectedness and love in their relationships.

How do we do this? Phoebe and I are non-monogamous – which if you view the diagram below, can be incredibly complex – but for us, it’s not. It’s just how we are. We are we.

Our love for each other is so passionate, indescribable, complete – it’s true love, and we are Unbreakable.

As much as I love being in your life, as your male escort and companion, and having you in my life – I still do deserve to be able to have a private life.

One cannot serve from an empty vessel, and me being in a relationship also helps me to be loved, nurtured, and to better serve you! I love being able to provide everything that you desire.

I am very happy to let you know that I am happy in love – and still always here to make YOU feel nurtured, loved, exhilarated – and happy.

Kisses,

Leo xoxo